Is Someone There?

Is Someone There?

Today I would like to share with you a thing which always comes in my mind that why we get scared from dark or maybe from something which always look strange.  Strange means to say, that it could be anything , maybe strange house or isolated place,sound. But my question is something my question is WHY?. Let's find out.

Well it depends on us that how we take the things around us, let's start myself suppose if someone asks me that why I scared from height? I will simply maybe I feel that I could fall and get hurt.  So that was me, this is how it depends on us not everyone scares from height.  Some people scared from balloon because they think that balloon gonna popped right in their face. Same happens with dark.

Dark

You might get scared in the lonely room or from dark because whenever we heard word "DARK" we start creating a image where we are seeing ourself somewhere lonely in the dark. You might be afraid that something you can't see but there it could be anything it be anything it could be a "GHOST" or dark you think that something will jump out and will come all of the sudden and startle you.  But in reality there is totally different thing, nothing like that.  So we can say that we not scared from dark but actually we scared from the unknown things. It could be the combination of things.

Scared Yourself?

It is very easy to get answer of my question my question is not a big deal to solve out.  As we discussed that we all are scared from dark that's not actually the reason is unknown things or maybe the imagination one thing is sure that in this world everything is possible we can't say that unknown do not exists or ghost or etc.

Here we are simply trying to find out the fact of our sacredness or we can say the unknown things. Have you ever noticed that sometimes you find yourself alone in the room sometimes it happens. Suppose you are reading something in your new house.  A house where you have your study table in your room and you are enjoying reading a book and all of the sudden light goes!!.  What will you react then that's the most important thing. Will you be scared ? Or if you are scare then ask to yourself Why?.  You can turn the lights on and you will see that there is nothing which may hurt you or feel you scare. If you think for a moment you might be able to understand what  is making you feel scare in the dark.  And if you will spend some time in the dark you will see that your eyes have adjusted according to the dark or you will be able to see in the dark.

STOP BEING SCARED BY YOUR IMAGINATION THINK POSITIVE OR BE BOLD TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION OR THE FACT

Thanks

Lokesh Kumar.

What Are The Most Important Things In Life

Well friends this is question which might be in everyone's Mind that what is the most important things in life? Is that Money, relationship, Job, Or maybe something else. Everyone has their own mind set and their own view to see the life,but what if we think for a moment and ask to ourself that what is the most important things for life.

In this life we all move though life differently,it's just because we have our own mind set to see the life prospective. Some prefer to do as little as possible, while others live at full speed. And how we all spend our time is depends on us.

Let's go step by step.

How we spend our time? What are the few most important things we spend most of the time on? And why what is the reason behind of this? I know these all question's will give you a bit time to think over it, and take a while to answer the question's. You probably would be thinking that why all these questions so important to us,but believe me this are the very important things.

Do you sometimes do things because of other's expectations or to fit in? or Have you ever continued a relationship with someone that's the different thing that it wasn't good for you? Or Generally have you ever spent much time into playing video games, exercising, or doing anything else that maybe later realized wasn't good or important for me. I am telling this because it doesn't mean that we always know what's right for us.

So basically I mean to say, however we are moving forward and pushing our self ahead but it doesn't mean that we're going in the right direction. Even though we don't know whether we are going right, we spend our time reflecting upon our direction, just because trying to understand ourself more better that actually what we want out of this life or ours.

According to me the most important in life is human being alive. Life is connected with time it's kind of ability we have to interact with the world in a way that gives you meaning and positiveness,emotions.or negative trail as well.

Well but "Living a great life means interact with the world in a way which gives you positiveness and take or trying to get more positive emotion's from the world without causing harm rather negative. Here's my few most important thing's in life.

Positive behavior, 

Health,

Relationship, 

Dream,

Purpose,

Value 

Positive Behavior 

The role of positive behavior in our life is most important,if we are not positive the things around us will automatically turn into negative. In order to get right direction in life we need to fill our mind with positive thought's. Positive thoughts will change your behavior towards the world automatically your periphery, your outer is nothing your ideas and your behavior and way you talk or think positively that's you all about. Take help of Yoga, Meditation, and accept what you are and live life the way thats's right for us. Personally few years back I was not strong enough I always believe on what people judgement or to take the things positive and lived most of my life without having a strong enough self-view. Only during the last few years I have been able to understand the things, So stop dealing with negative trait or feedback and rejection.

Health

As i discussed in my previous blog that health is most important things if we are not healthy we can not think or can't do anything. Take care of your health like a new born baby, having poor health like you are wasting your time and your capability to live the life you want to live. Therefore, if we want to live for a long time with  a mind and body.

Relationship

Investing our relationship will give you strong positive emotions "spending your valuable time with people and your dear one will grow your relationship stronger and will give your respect deeper. If you will not give time to your dear one or not taking care of relationship or people around you they'ill slowly fade away. In this life we need helping hand communicating with other's always give you feel better or you can make yourself garish with them sharing thoughts,views, these all are give you the knowledge and value for your time. So trying to be frank and invest your time and relationship with world.

Dream

Dreams are the things which you want it in your real life. It could be anything it could be little or could be a big. Take dream everyday about what you want in your real life this way to increase the positiveness in your mind because both related to mind. Many dreams comes true with more positive your self-view, This is the secret of your success which i experienced or imbibe from my past personally. Whatever you want to become in your life just before you ready sleep think and dreaming about it, and that dream gonna be true if you are positive and can easily achieve whatever you want in your life, rather then thinking without any mean or wasting time on thinking something.

Purpose

Your purpose should be clear towards the life, Many people have very less view and capability towards their life aim or we can say life-purpose they spend their whole in hope of getting good just because they are purpose-less or aim less. The thing which should be in our mind that never be a double minded don't be confused to take the decision towards of your purpose it should crystal clear. My purpose of life is live good and make others feel good or do good if you will not do good you will not be able get good.

Value

Values are the words that gonna define you that how you want to live. What moral value you have everyone has the value like you. Suppose you are going for a vacation all alone on your motor bike there is road where no one is present and all of the sudden you motor bike has stopped due to some technical problem. It's obvious that you will be surprised or bit afraid cos there is no one whom you can ask for help! Now you are searching someone to fix your motorbike after searching lot you finally see the one Man and you feel bit better .So the value is the Man here. Value always help you to take right decision or better in your life.

Thanks.

Lokesh Kumar

Healthy body with Healthy Food

It is very important to keep your self fresh and active.  The difference between health and work is very essentially for us..if our body is fit for work we can not do anything or If not then will end without doing anything. Stay healthy is first priority of the human body. If we are fit we can do things fast and quickly. So today I would like to share with you some Healthy secret's which I think we all need to keep in mind before we go and buy The Food.

As we all know that in today world vast number of supermarkets and the store where you can find variety of food items which can easily confused you to buy for you home, But if you have right mind set about the food you are going to buy and secondly the Health you will be prove yourself as Good buyer. So let's start step by step

Food Labels

Food labels is very important to you because it informs you about the product and various ingredients present in food like Fat,Sugar,Sodium,fiber, and etc..So it can be seen clearly if you are losing weight or maybe on diet then, which product is good for you if you are on diet so lot off sugar is not good for your body.

Try Natural Product.

Try to get Natural product and alway check the labels as we discussed above and Terms like artificial flavor, sweeteners or color etc. These all things are tell you if the products are free of pesticides and are natural. Some natural products are piled with oils and sugar. You can check in labels.

Right Edible Oil

In nowadays you will see that there are varieties of oils in the market today which can easily confused you and the most surprising thing that each of them claiming a multiple benefits. So which ones you should go for it? which ones is Good for your Family and Give you nice taste.? Always go for refined oils because if you need do high-heat cooking or maybe frying in this case Sunflower and peanuts are refined oils, Which are suitable for high Heat,apart of that We have Unrefined oil as well, like Olive oil, sesame oil, it can be used for salads or for low-heat cooking. These are the more nutritious as compared to their refined counterpart.. The oils lowest in saturated fats are corn sunflower, olive, soybean etc.

Brown Bread & Whole Wheat

Well The whole-wheat bread includes the bran, germs and the endosperm of wheat grain. The refined wheat flour or simply wheat flour is without the nutritious parts of wheat, the germs and the bran Brown bread made of whole grains retains most of its vitamins, fiber and minerals.

Fake Promises Instant Weight Loss

Avoid weight loose product like Diet pills,slim fad food, diet drinks etc. However these are very popular but it can be harmful for your body or mind, Take help of natural resources like Juice,tomato juice, etc. Stick to a balanced diet or natural to lose healthy weight

Buy Fresh Food

The important things in Fresh Food that it produces retains most of nutrients. More colored fruits and veggie, which are higher in vitamins and minerals and product which rich in fiber like beans, peas, avocado,blue berries etc. 

Exercise 

Exercise is most important thing to do for stay healthy.. 15 to 30 mins of walk everyday should be there or stay healthy

ENSURE GOOD HEALTH TO YOUR FAMILY BY CHOOSING THE RIGHT PRODUCT DURING GROCERY SHOPPING.

Thanks

Lokesh Kumar.

GIVE TIME TO YOUR PARENTS 

Once upon time An elderly man in New York calls his son in Australia and says,

"I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that you mother and I are getting a divorce; 40 years of marriage.. and that much misery is enough!"

After receiving a letter 

"Dad, What are you talking about?" the son screams.

The man said " We can't stand the sight of each other any longer, " the old man says. "We're sick of each other and I'm sick of talking about this, so you call your sister in Canada and tell her!"

Son was quite after this and took few minutes to think.. and then he calls his sister, who explodes on the phone.

"What !!!!!!! Are you serious .. Like heck they're getting divorced, " She shouts, "I'll take care of this."

She immediately calls to dad and scream at the old man. "Are you getting divorced. Don't do a anything OK? until I get there.. and now am going to call my brother and we both are coming tomorrow that's is it.

 Are you listening to me? She said to the old man and she hangs up.

The old man hangs up his phone and turns to his wife "Okay" , he says 

"It's all set.  They're both coming for X-mas  and paying their own Airfare  (The old man said with and both smiled )

MORAL : NO MAN OR WOMAN IS BUSY IN THIS WORLD ALL 365 DAYS.

MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING YOUR PRESENCE IS IMPORTANT TO YOUR PARENTS OR DEAR ONE. THE SKY IS NOT GOING TO FALL DOWN IF YOU TAKE FEW DAYS LEAVE AND MEET YOUR DEAR'S ONE

Thanks

Lokesh Kumar

Strange Or Bizarre?

MAN WEARS CAGE ON HEAD TO QUIT SMOKING.

In an unusual attempt to quit smoking, a 42 year-old. A man has been locking a wire cage on his head. (Ibrahim), who smoked two packets a day for 26 years, wears th cage on his head each day before leaving for work and gives the keys to his wife.  The 42 years old says he was inspired by the safety helmets worn by motorbike riders .  He has n't smoked cigarette since wearing the cage last week.

WOMAN WHO WAS MAN WEDS MAN WHO WAS A WOMAN

A groom who used to be a woman and the bride who used to be a man, have finally tied the knot in Britain's first every double sex swap wedding.  Helen and Felix Fenlon, who have changed their gender, got married in an intimate ceremony. Fenlon an Felix met six years ago at a trans-gender support group.  Their wedding has marked and end to years of inner struggle and torment for two people, Who were trapped in the wrong bodies, but desperately tried their best to conform.  The couple had to officially change their gender on their birth certificate after dating for six years..

Thanks.

Lokesh Kumar.

Friendship in Workplace is Good or Bad?

There's no doubt about it if you have good friends at work, you're more likely to enjoy your day at the office.  Someone to sit with at lunch, discuss the gossip, empathize over difficult customers.  These things like good way to be positive or stress free in another word we can say that these things like oil the wheels of the working day.

How's friendship Impact on your performance at work

Whereas some management expert think friendship and socialization at the workplace boost the productivity and staff retention, other think they can create problem for both individuals and business.

Is that really creates problem at work?

So are workplace friendship a good thing? Well, it's not quite so simple.  Other researchers point to their possible ill-effects people being distracted from work due to socializing; breaches of confidentiality; blurring of boundaries between friendship and work role; Favorited clash of roles (eg. Manager finding it difficulty to enforce procedures with their friends) bullying or poor performance being overlooked or condoned and cliques forming but actually,many of those 'dangers' are more a result of poor management cultures than friendships.

It helps in Collaboration

One thing that's not in doubt is the value of employee engagement and collaboration.  By helping people get to know each other, you help them work together.  Another thing that's not in doubt is that younger workers expect to have a good time at work.  The Millennial Generation wants to be friends with their co-workers.  And may older workers want a sociable workplace too. 'Good relationship with co-workers' was the top reason to stay in your job in a survey by the Australia Institute Of Management- more popular than job stratification.

Thing Which Should Be In Mind

YOUR NEW SELF AVOWED BEST FRIEND FOREVER AT A BUSINESS CENTER TURNS OUT TO WORK YOUR MAIN COMPETITOR, BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT WORK OR JUST FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO HAVE COFFEE WITH, IN THAT CASE

Thanks 

Lokesh Kumar

The 24 Lessons of the life which I Imbibe.

Life is unpredictable each moment of life teach you new things, you learn or imbibe the things around you, Same happened with me. When i started experience of life and would like to share all the essential part of life and experience according me there are 24 lessons from the life.

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still so good more then you think or except .

2. When in doubt,just take the next small step, rather then big one.

3. Life is too short to waste trying to something innovative or stop hating anyone.

4.Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. First your parents and your partner and then you friends will come to help you 

5. Trying to live simple as much as you can..Avoid the complected situation but work smart or hard,

6. Cry with someone.  It's more healing than crying alone.

7. Save same money for future or for you tough time, By help of money you can tackle the problem or sort out easily.

8. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

9. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

10. Don't Compare your life to others.  You have no idea what their journey or experienced or all about.

11. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

12. Everything can change in the blink of an eye.  But don't worry, God never blinks.

13. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

14. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

15. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 

16. Forgive everyone everything.

17. What other people think of you none of your business.

18. However good or bad situation is, it will change, be polite and patience 

19. Believe in Miracles

20. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. You don't need to think.

21. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

22. Listen to music and be fresh

23. Do love and respect animals and all the creatures or nature

23. Remember God always.

24. Help to needy person

Thanks

Lokesh Kumar.

CREATIVE

A jobless man applied for the job of "Office boy" at Microsoft.

The HR interviewed him then watched him cleaning the floor as watched him cleaning the floor as test. "You are employed" he said. "Give me your e-mail address and I'll send you the forms to fill in as well as when you may start ". The man replied "But I don't have a computer, neither an email, that means you do not exist. And     who doesn't exist, cannot have the job."

The man left with no hope at all. He didn't know what to do, with only $10 in his pocket.  He then decided to got the supermarket & buy kg tomato crate.  He then sold the tomatoes in a door to door round.  In less than two hours, He succeeded to double this capital.  He repeated the operation three times, and returned home with $60.  The man realize that he can survive this way, and started to go everyday earlier and return late.  Thus, his money doubled or tripled everyday.

Shortly, he bought a cart, then a truck, then he had his own fleet of delivery vehicles. 5 years later, the man is one of the biggest food retailer in the US.  He started to Plan his family's future, and decided to have a life Insurance. He called an insurance broker, and chose a protection plan.  When the conversation was concluded, the broker asked him his email.  The man replied, "I don't have an email." The broker answered curiously , "You don't have an email, and yet have succeeded to build an empire.  Can you imagine what you could have been if you had and email.?!"

The man thought for a while and replied "Yes, I'd be an office boy Microsoft!"

Moral of the story:

1.Internet/email/bbm/whatsapp is not the the solution to your life.

2.If you don't have internet/email/bbm/whatsapp, and work hard, you can be billionaire.

3.If you received this message by email/bbm/whatsapp, up are not any close to being a Millionaire.

Thanks

Lokesh Kumar.

Can You Give The Answer's

Q1  There's a one story house.  Everything in the house is blue, the walls are blue, the bathroom is blue, the floor is blue, the kitchen is blue all the bed rooms are blue even the roof is blue, but what color is the stairs. 

Q2  A woman shoots her husband.  Then she holds him under water for over 5 minutes. Finally, she hangs him. but 5 minutes later they both go out together and enjoy a wonderful dinner together how can this be?

Q3  A man lives on the twelfth floor of an apartment building. Every morning he takes the elevator down to the lobby and leaves the building.  In the evening, he gets into the elevator, and if there is someone else in the elevator or if it was raining that day he goes back to his floor directly otherwise he goes to tenth floor and walks up two flights of stairs to his apartment.

Q4  A man is lying dead, face down in the desert. He wearing a backpack.

Q5  Jack gave john the following challenge:

"If you sit down in that chair, I bet I can make you get out of it before I run around the chair three time," he said 

"Aw, That's not fair," John Said."You'ill just prick me with a pin or something."

"Nope," Jack said. " I won't touch you either directly or with any object if you get out of the chair, it will be your own choice."

John thought and accepted the challenge and behold, jack won the bet How did he do it?

Answer's

• There aren't any chairs, its a one story house.
• The woman was a photographer. She shot a picture of her husband developed it and hung it up to dry.
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• The man is a dwarf. He Can't reach the upper elevator buttons, but he can ask people to push them for him.  He can also push them with his umbrella.
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• He jumped out of an airplane but his parachute failed to open
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• John sat down in the chair. Jack ran around it twice, then said, "I will be back in a week to run the third time around"